The way of living life depends on the environment in which our childhood was spent at an earlier stage, Mainly parents are the one who bring us into this world and make us a valuable person in life journey.
What do you understand by the term Parenting ?
To be a parent it's like a blessing. At the starting time of the journey it was a little bit difficult to manage a household course, job along with the activity of bringing up a child but as time passes it becomes a habit of parents to manage things according to their schedules.
Sometimes it amazes me how someone can be so selfless in this life. Parents have many duties to protect their children's rights until they are old enough to make their own way in the world. The authority to make decisions concerning and affecting the care, welfare and proper development of the child is known as 'parental responsibility.
When I asked my mom and dad about their feelings when they became parents and had an amazing journey with us they replied "There was never a dull moment in their days when they were with us. our innocent questions and even serious acts are hilarious for them and make their day. Sometimes, we say something that may crack them and instantly lighten them by so many worries related to our future but still for them me and my brother are the shining of their eyes”.
Parenting is a way to connect with children . It relies on love, care , understanding, respect, and boundaries that describe the deepness of relation. Here is hoping to convey to you all short information about these Gentle Parenting which inspire you all to build a positive parenting in life.
Have you ever thought about the situation from which our parents go through?
They put all their efforts into building our nature in a better way than they can do so, Sometimes they forget themselves and repeatedly care for us. just for our happiness they go through many difficulties but still they always pretend to be happy in front of us.
The bonding that parents share with their children is beyond heaven, such a precious relationship. We can't judge or even imagine their feelings until we become and experience the situations like parents do in real life .
Teaching children manners is something that is more crucial than ever. One of the most important jobs parents have in this journey is to help their children to develop social skills, show them how to interact in a polite manner with people, and teach them to treat others with respect. some children's started misbehaving nowadays because they think like their life is own by them anyone else don't have any rights to stop them not even their parents , so for this reason new generation individuals should necessarily have to understand the meaning and importance of parents in life and they will definitely understand it once they become parents.
The behaviour of children were affected by the particular situation and time, as well as by the child's own particular family values and expectations, and cultural and social background.
Parenting advice usually aims to cover all aspects of family life so that you, as a parent, can form the best possible relationship with your children and they can have the best quality of life possible.
In the early years of development, there are a lot of things to Manage like tantrums in a Positive way to enhance the discipline values in a child .
The children may go through lots of difficulties during their schooling Eg : Bullying by other students in School and education as well as Social life become a challenge , Communication Lifestyle the way to express themselves in front of group of peoples , change in diet plan unnecessary eating junk foods, Family tragic situations Divorce and separation ,Teenage years problems result in mood swing Health concerns Any medical issue .
At that time an additional support is needed which is provided by parents in some cases by friends or someone else having a special place in their life.
An effective parents should follow some qualities listed below :
Showing love whenever it's needed
Providing moral support during tough times
Offering choices and consequences
Being a role model
Teaching responsibilities at different steps
Providing a range of experiences
Showing respect towards decision
parents are replacement of god we should worship them first than anyone else , they always knew all the solutions of our problems .even though we try to keep secrets but stills they caught us just by reading our face and actions. Mind one thing no one can understand us like parents do
Some of the more widely used parenting styles are:
Authoritative : In this parenting style, the parents are nurturing, responsive, and supportive, yet set firm limits for their children. They attempt to control children's behaviour by explaining rules, discussing, and reasoning. They listen to a child's viewpoint but don't always accept it.
Authoritarian : It is an extremely strict parenting style. It places high expectations on children with little responsiveness. As an authoritarian parent, you focus more on obedience, discipline, control rather than nurturing your child.
Attachment : It is based on the idea that babies learn to trust and thrive when their needs are consistently met by a care giver early in life.
Permissive : They are not demanding, kids do not have many responsibilities and are allowed to regulate their behaviour and the majority of their choices. When a parent is permissive, they look at their child as equal rather than children of a parent.
Free range : It is the concept of raising children in the spirit of encouraging them to function independently and with limited parental supervision ,involves giving kids plenty of independence to instil confidence, creativity, and problem-solving skills
Helicopter : A parent who is closely involved with their child's life and tries to control it too much, especially their child's education.
Uninvolved/neglectful : where parents don't respond to their child's needs or desires beyond the basics of food, clothing, and shelter.
Parents are simple guides who communicate in an assertive manner , they always know exactly what you need, try to communicate with them clearly, and have solid boundaries. Don't ask someone to do something that we ourselves wouldn't do, be mannered and show respect.
The memories we make with our family is everything. Everyone needs a house to live in, but a supportive family is what builds a home. It involves lots of flaws but still there's love for you .
The Qualities Of Strong Families :
In strong families, deeply caring for each other is mandatory and they should not be afraid to express their love.
Commitments , promises make the pillars of understanding between persons.
Spending time together gave rise to planning activities which give us a chance to come closer even during Mealtime is a great place to start chit-chat.
Positive communication without any selfish thoughts just to open up for a while.
Whenever the moment of joy is here we have to forget all the disputes and just enjoy the time together .
Spiritual well-being is very important. It includes our connection to culture, community, spirituality , religiosity , values, mental models and ethics we hold.
Successful management of stress and crisis so that we can easily manage awkward situations.
My experience with my family is very inspiring for me because they show me all aspects on how I should live my life through their personal gain and loss involving education, parenting, responsibilities regarding any relation and work ethic.
My family's past experiences also teach me how to live my life the best way possible without wasting the opportunity to live life to the fullest.
Strong families have warmth and care, good communication, predictability, and strong connections to others outside the family. Looking after yourself is an important part of raising a strong family so remember this for a better future.
If you want others to give you importance for that you can develop smarter solutions to problems, deepen your thinking, also sharpen your decision making and start ignoring unwanted things that may disturb you as well as others. In the end , by becoming a better adviser, you'll extend your influence and learn from the people who come to you for guidance.
So which parenting technique do you gonna use in your life and what do you think about parents role in your life ?..
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